What Over 50s Are Most Afraid Of
“I’m not afraid of death,” my client said, “but I’m terrified of declining.”
For many achievers in the second half of life, that’s the fear that stops us from planning ahead.
Instead, we pretend we can go on just as we are-- forever.
But as social scientist Arthur Brooks writes in his smart new book From Strength to Strength, every living organism is constantly changing.
Including us.
The strengths we have relied on, he says, will not support us in this new stage.
Instead, Brooks has a three-part prescription for living well over 50.
Find work that is its own reward-- instead of a means to money, prestige, or power.
Devote yourself to people, not things.
And look for ways to connect with the divine… aka something greater than yourself.
My professional and personal take? He's spot on.
You can find tremendous joy and meaning in your 60s, 70s and beyond.
But this often requires shifts that are easier said than done.
Especially for high achievers who want things to stay pretty much the same.
Who are not interested in traditional retirement.
Those shifts don’t happen by themselves.
That’s where coaching comes in.
Coaching can help you broaden your perspective on getting older.
To learn what’s holding you back from seeing new possibilities.
Like in athletics, a good coach helps you make the most of your abilities and push through your challenges.
You start with small steps and end with big wins.
Recently my client reported feeling much better about where he is now and where he is headed.
“I know I am on a path and the structure is already helping.”
What about you?
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